TRUTH BE TOLD- SERIES 1

 AVOID BEING A LIABILITY TO YOUR PARTNER:

Marriage is for two people that love each other and are willing to be a blessing to each other. However, nobody wants to marry a liability. Gone are the days when ladies stay jobless and with no vision(NFA- No future Ambition) just because they hope to marry and become the responsibility of a man. Ladies should place value on themselves and secure all they can before marriage. If you are looking for a ready-made wife or else you will become a senior house girl and face a ready-made trouble. You can only attract who you are and nothing more, so get ready to be a blessing so that you can attract someone that will be a blessing. There is an evil move now among some guys who are lazing around with the hope of getting a rich lady to want them and take care of them. To allow yourself to be caught in the wave is to drawn and never rise again.

DON’T LET THE RELATIONSHIP MOVE TOO FAST AT ITS INFANT STAGE:

When two people are in love, there is a tendency for them to get carried away and end up committing

themselves to what they have not duly tested. Relationships should move precept upon precept to give room for gradual growths and stability, the infant stage should be used more for foundation laying. To take a relationship to a level you are not prepared for is to bite more than you can chew and funny enough, no one will help you chew it. Take your time and allow things flow normally without any emotional or lustful catalyst. Some singles have rush things and become pregnant to discover the guy is a married man, so also some single guys have rushed things only to get hooked to a freshly retired prostitute with multiple strangers.

DON’T DISCUSS YOUR PERSONAL INADEQUACIES AND FLAWS IN THE EARLY STAGE OF THE RELATIONSHIP:

This is not wisdom for deception but wisdom for solidifying a relationship. Let your partner understand your person and accept you as you are before you start divulging your inadequacies and flaws. If the early stage of the relationships used to share your inadequacies and flaws you will scare away your partner with the pressure of your problem. Everybody has his or her own problems, and not many will want to shoulder the extra load of others. Marriage is not a ministry but an institution. If you start a relationship on negative news, you will not motivate but deflate your partner. Ascertain the maturity of your partner before releasing vital information. However, it must not be too early or too late.

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